
Kathleen Allen, LCSW, C-ASWCM
Kathleen Allen has been working with older adults and their families for over 20 years.
Senior Care Management Services, LLC
Learn some helpful tips from an expert on creating a safe and smooth journey with someone who has Alzheimer's.
Have you ever thought about travelling long distance with a loved one with Alzheimer’s and struggled with how to manage the travel details, the drive, and keep your loved one safe? Here we will take a look at doing just this - driving long distance with someone with Alzheimer’s, and provide helpful suggestions from a travel nurse who works specifically with the elderly.
Cindy Shaeffer, M.S., R.N., A.P.N., and flight nurse with Travel Care & Logistics, Inc. of Chicago, makes her living travelling with older adults. Hired by families to assist them in getting an elder from one place to the next, sometimes by land, sometimes by air, she provided some suggestions for families to use for a smooth journey:
When arranging for overnight accommodations, Ms. Schaefer suggests considering a stay in a local assisted living facility under a respite stay. An assisted living facility is already designed for the safety of residents, and the staff is trained, so the facility is prepared for someone with Alzheimer’s.
Whether your loved one and the caregiver stay in a hotel or an assisted living facility, be sure to mimic your loved one’s home environment by setting up the queues just like home—i.e. the toothbrush, soap, washcloth, pills. These visual reminders can make it easier for your loved one to accomplish these tasks.
On each of your days away, including travel days, allow for your loved one to take an hour long nap in the early afternoon, making sure she wakes while the sun is up. Then stay up for the rest of the afternoon, eat dinner, stay up and then go to bed. As confusion can be worse in the evening, this structure will allow your loved one to remain more oriented, and sleep better.
If there is a big event during your stay, such as a wedding or family reunion, there is much you can do to provide the structure and the downtime your loved one needs to enjoy the event.
To help your loved one engage in the event, find something he or she can do to participate, making sure to fit it to his or her abilities. It might be folding napkins, organizing silverware, or stuffing envelopes.
Quiet time will be needed during such an event. When things just become too overwhelming, allow for your loved one to retreat to his space with the caregiver. On the day after the event, plan for a quieter day—sleeping in, easing into the day, having a quiet activity with an older relative, or meeting up with small groups of family.
Of course, when returning home, continue to follow all the guidelines of your trip to the event: leave early, avoid big crowds, have a driver and a caregiver in the car, hire a car service if needed, frequent small meals and fluids.
Above all, enjoy your time with your loved one.
Kathleen Allen has been working with older adults and their families for over 20 years.
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